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Mentors Make the Difference

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Picture this: a child sitting at the kitchen table, homework spread out, frustration building. Maybe mom’s working a double shift. Maybe dad’s not around. Maybe the stress of school or friendships feels like too much.

Now picture someone else at that table—a mentor who leans in, listens, and says, “You’ve got this. I believe in you.” That small moment of encouragement can change everything.

Here in Macon and Jackson counties, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Western North Carolina sees how mentorship is more than just spending time together—it’s a lifeline for mental health.

Life can feel heavy, and kids are no exception. Between school pressures, social media, and family challenges, it’s no wonder so many young people feel anxious. The simple gift of a caring adult or older peer makes an incredible difference.

One Little Sister recently said, “I don’t feel so invisible anymore. My Big reminds me that I matter.”

We don’t have to look far for examples of how mentorship changes lives:

In Jackson County, a high school Big Sister helped her Little—who struggled with anxiety—set small goals. Together they celebrated each success: showing up to school, joining a club, making a new friend. Slowly, her confidence grew. Today, she walks into school with her head held high.

In Macon County, a Big Brother introduced his Little to hiking. At first, their walks were quiet. Over time, the trails became a place where his Little felt safe sharing worries and dreams. The mountains themselves seemed to carry some of the burden away. Those hikes became a healing ritual—body and mind both growing stronger.

The good news: making an impact doesn’t require special training or hours every week. It starts with showing up. A few hours a month to go for ice cream, play basketball, make crafts, or just talk—those hours add up to something life-changing.

Be a Big: Adults of all ages can mentor. Support High School Bigs: Local teens are stepping up to mentor younger students—your encouragement helps them succeed. Donate or Sponsor: Your support means more matches, more training, and more kids reached. Spread the Word: Maybe mentorship isn’t for you now—but you can connect us with someone who’d be the perfect Big.

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